Toddlers and Tiaras, the popular show on TLC about young girls vying for beauty pageant glory, has been controversial from the start. From everyday viewers to Vanessa Williams, people have criticized the parents who parade their very young children around the toddler beauty pageant circuit (which is a real thing, apparently). Many argue that this type of beauty pageant teaches these young girls that beauty is the most important characteristic for a female, and some even argue that the pageants sexualize these girls at very tender ages given the provocative costumes.
The controversy has now been brought to court in a custody battle over one of the Toddlers and Tiaras stars. Bill Verst and Lindsay Jackson, parents of Madisyn “Maddy” Verst, are locked in a custody battle that centers on toddler beauty pageants. The controversy of Maddy Verst’s Dolly Parton pageant costume hit in September 2011, and now Verst claims that Jackson is sexually exploiting Maddy by dressing her so provocatively in the pageants. Jackson claims that Verst is simply using the pageants as a way to gain custody of Maddy, and has never had an issue before the custody case began.
A court-appointed psychologist is now “recommending that Bill Verst and his ex, Lindsay Jackson, share temporary custody, with Bill Verst getting primary residential custody” due to the provocative nature of Jackson’s costumes for Maddy. This case is ongoing, but for now, Maddy’s pageant career is on hold as her parents duke it out in family court.
Most people have many misconceptions about lawyers. Unfortunately, this can hinder the client-lawyer relationship, and make a bad situation even worse. Family law issues are highly emotional, and it is important to have a trustworthy lawyer who can resolve highly contentious problems.
We compiled this list to give future clients a glimpse of what our attorneys actually do here at Luxenberg & Johnson.
1) No one can afford a lawyer in this economy.
This tough economy has forced people to tighten their belts, and most people mistakenly believe they simply can’t afford an attorney right now. In reality, attorneys are affordable even in a bad economy. Family law cases can be difficult, both emotionally and legally. The truth is, many people can’t afford to not have an attorney. Yes, you read that right. It might seem counterintuitive, but often people can save themselves money, not to mention a huge legal headache, by hiring a lawyer at the outset of their legal problem.
If your car needed a new tire, it can be dangerous and ultimately expensive to wait to replace the tire until it blows. Once your tire blows, you run the risk of ruining your rims or even getting into an accident which can lead to problems much more expensive than replacing a tire.
The tire scenario is similar to a family law case. Many people who don’t hire an attorney from the outset see problems develop in their case that later take an attorney a great deal of time to sort out. And time is money. So, the upfront cost of hiring an attorney can ultimately save money in the long run by potentially preventing major disaster in a case.
2) Lawyers are heartless.
This simply isn’t true! Yes, some lawyers can be downright nasty, but just like there are good and bad doctors, and good and bad mechanics, there are good and bad lawyers.
Many lawyers go into practice because they truly care about the issues in their field. Without that foundation of passion and keen interest, it can be tough to stay a lawyer for long without burning out.
The lawyers at Luxenberg & Johnson got into family law because they are passionate about family law issues. Our philosophy is to help our clients through their legal matters with a sense of compassion and professionalism.
3) Once I get a lawyer, I have no say in my own case.
Lawyers make their living helping clients. Lawyers work for the client, not the other way around! Legally, lawyers have to do what their clients tell them to do. The client is in charge. Good lawyers don’t simply charge forward with a case how they think it should go, especially in family law. Every family is different, and every family law issue is different.
Our firm is dedicated to empowering our clients throughout the course of our representation. We advise our clients, but ultimately decisions are made by the clients. We believe client empowerment is best so that once we are finished with the representation, our clients have a strong foundation for the next stage of their lives.
The family law attorneys at Luxenberg & Johnson, PC have strong expertise in all areas of domestic relations:
- Divorce negotiations, settlement and litigation
- Collaborative law
- Alimony and spousal support
- International family cases
- Child custody and support
- Best interest of the children
- Property identification, valuation and distribution
- Pre-nuptial agreements
- Agreements while married
- Separation and settlement agreements
- Domestic violence and spousal abuse
We define “FAMILY” in the broadest possible terms to include:
- Close and extended families
- Blood relatives
- Couples in formal marriages, with or without children
- Couples in civil unions, with or without children
- Couples in common law marriages, with or without children
- Couples living together
- Friends choosing to live together
We help you protect your family and yourself, by providing legal services that focus on your family. This blog is dedicated to empowering our clients, and the general public, when approaching their family law matters. Whether you are getting a divorce, seeking custody of your child, trying to handle domestic violence issues, or any other domestic relations matter, we do what we do for you.